"I know a thing or two about that," he answers after a moment. "Did that plenty back home-- and it wasn't... I didn't set out to hurt my wife. Fuck it, I loved her. I was just a dumbass who followed his dick more than his head. It didn't make it right and I sure as hell didn't deserve her. But I get it."

And he gets why Neal's upset about it. Hell, he wasn't too happy when he got the story either, but that doesn't mean he doesn't get it. "But I do know when she gave me a second chance, I cut that shit out."