Not at all. I don't really recall wanting to be...this when I was younger. It was a decision that was thrust upon me and my siblings and we've just tried to live with it as best as we can.

( he steps closer to the desk, resting one hand on it and peering down at her. )

You have a choice and that is a good thing, Elena. If you want to become a vampire, you can. If you don't, you don't.

( it was as simple as that to him. )

And I'm sure Damon's reasoning can come down to the fact that he doesn't want to lose you. But, he should respect your wishes no matter what.