That's not what I said.

( what he wants to think is that she isn't right because that puts a burden on her shoulders that she doesn't deserve. )

I'm asking you to keep an open mind and not take this all on yourself. We don't know enough about this to know what consequences it might have. I don't want you to be a fatalist about this.

( he doesn't want her to be overwhelmed and suffocated by what she thinks she did to these spectres. )